Matthew 22:1-14 is a confusing parable. An important detail is that parables are word puzzles and invitations to self-reflection, not doctrinal statements. They challenge our presumptions, they challenge us to visualize love and mercy in new ways. They often have a surprising turn which challenges us to think of ourselves and the reign of God in new ways.

The desperate King’s only priority is to have a full banquet hall of worthy guests to celebrate his son’s wedding. The king will do ANYTHING to accomplish that end. All are welcome but in the end we learn they must be worthy (wearing proper clothing).

In response we might ask, “To what ends might God go to gather all of creation together as one for the celebration of life, grace, and peace?” Another question might be, “Which of our ego’s treasured ideas about God might be shockingly cast aside because it misses the mark? On the issue raised by the king’s demand for proper clothing, “What does it mean to be worthy to celebrate love and grace in Jesus Christ, in God? How can one be worthy of something which can never be earned? Might the impossible nature of this question be part of the brilliance of this parable – perhaps the whole point?

Hmmm. Read the parable and ponder the possibilities!